My Dose!

November 28, 2007

Gaaah, I have a cold. I went to sleep last night with wet hair and the window open, so I guess it’s mostly (all?) my fault. But aahh! I hate this. I can barely breath and my boss is being b*tchier than you usual.  *breath*

Ah, rich married friends who do nothing all day long. They make me crazy. I was supposed to go out to dinner yesterday with a couple of friends of mine, and of course I planned my day around it because I needed to organize myself – school, job, etc – and then no one would answer the phone so I left a message with her that I was not waiting around for them to call me back, and I went home, and made my whole family crazy. Whatever I’m not explaining this well, but I’m just annoyed. A whole bunch of my friends who got married right away come from , or married into, very wealthy families, and it’s a totally different ball game. They got married, moved to Israel, their husband’s learned, and they did nothing all day long. It’s just so frustrating when people don’t understand commitments and responsibilities and life. One of my friends even had her live-in from her parent’s house come and clean her tiny apartment when she got married! Hello! Sometimes it’s impossible.

Right now I want to eat pancakes and peppermint ice cream (go Baskin Robbins!) and sweet complex carbs and not have to cook for shabbos.  Today is one of those days.

I know I have nothing really interesting to say, but I felt like I should post because it’s been awhile. Though nothing major has happened. H and I had an argument yesterday about a shirt that I just got. He said it’s too formfitting and I said it’s fine. I have a lot of v-neck shirts and sweaters so I usually wear a t-shirt and then another shirt over that, so I think he’s just not used to seeing me in a T-shirt like material. I really really want to keep the shirt, but H doesn’t want me to. But I want to! Arrrrg. I don’t know what to do. I know I should do what makes H happy (as he would do for me) but I really don’t think the shirt is untzniyus and I want it and I feel trapped a little bit into doing what he wants when I don’t want to.

Ok, I’m not making any sense. I’m going to go now before I make a complete fool of myself.

Posted by marriagenewbie
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4 Responses to “My Dose!”

  1. halfshared Says:

    November 28, 2007 at 5:36 pm

    You sound like you are stressed and under the weather. I think you should make a really easy supper tonight, go to sleep as early as possible and is it possible for you to call your parents to come to them for shabbos? Hope you feel better fast!!

  2. SIS Says:

    November 28, 2007 at 7:57 pm

    :-( I’m sorry you’re not feeling well…everything is just so much more difficult with a cold. I understand your feelings about your wealthy friends, but it’s all relative…a woman who’s scrounging around working fifteen hours a day making minimum wage and can’t afford the basics, would think you don’t understand what life is about. I think what’s frustrating about your situation is that they didn’t respect YOUR life. That’s really annoying :-( Sorry about that.
    And don’t worry about making a fool out of yourself…this is YOUR blog, feel comfortable on it. If we think you’re a fool, so what? :-P Feel good MN…good luck with the husband.

  4. bad4shidduchim Says:

    November 30, 2007 at 3:13 pm

    Soup and vitamin C and lots of sleep. And I know a whole bunch of other home remedies too. ;-) You can try dosing yourself with concentrated oil of oregano twice daily – it worked for me – once. Or you can try taking Vitamin C and capsule garlic every two hours – worked for my sister – twice. Or you can get moisturizer puffs and inform the rest of the household that you’re open for pampering, big time.


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